this post has come up at a really interesting time as I am in a very similar position…
I’ve been looking to buy for a few months, I was made redundant in Dec and got another job fairly quickly and with the pay out I got, I wanted to use this to help fund a house.
So i got my finances in order, got together my budget for how much I “could” afford, which means, not stretching myself, still being able to enjoy my life which is what I want to do. I got together with a mortgage advisor and agreed the mortgage in principle…
I started looking, first thing looking at where I wanted to be and then looking at what I would get for my money. I quickly realised that my initial budget wasnt really going to get me anything in the area that i was looking, so I re-evaluated and decided that I could increase the amount i was looking to pay.
Then a house came up… I was really happy, it looked lovely, it ticked the boxes, was close to the tube for the missus, and not too far from my office, the inside was nice, it was livable from the start and there were no issues that I could see. So I put in an offer that was 10% below their asking price whihc was rejected and then put in another offer that was 9% below asking price which was accepted. Happy Days.
I had the survey done that indicated there was about £3.5k worth of work to be done on the house, a new rear window was needed, one wall needed damp proofing, ventilation bricks in the roof were needed and there was some woodworm that needed to be done, these were the “urgent” items.
The survey worded it so that the house was worth the amount only if you assumed the cost and inconvenience of getting this work done, so i asked the vendor to have the work done or to lower the house price by the £3.5k. She said no, so I said will you pay for £2k of the work, she said no and offered to pay £1.5k. I then told the estate agent that I was no longer interested… and walked away. The estate agent called the next day saying she would offer £1.6k (half the total costs of work needed) so I said ok, subject to her leaving the heavy appliances, the cooker, the fridge and the washing machine. He took it back to her and she said no to it all, so I was honest with the estate agent saying that I thought the woman was a mentalist, he had told me that she gets hysterical about the negiotiations…I told him that I’d been very up front that the asking price was at the top of my scale and that i needed to get a vendor who was decent and who would play ball. I said that I didnt have confidence in the vendor not to do something stupid before she moved out and the likes…
The woman is moving in with her partner and has no need for all the appliances and was just being vindictive and spiteful, the estate agent even said it! What really annoyed me was that the agent had told me that the house was under offer in jan but the vendor pulled out because the buyer wanted to lengthen the process, but he’s said that in that round of negiotiations, the vendor had dropped the price by £5k because of the results of the survey, but this time was only offering £1.5k.
So I’ve spent the weekend thinking about it and I was actually relieved when I spoke to the agent on monday and told him it was going to happen. I’d been snappy with my missus over the weekend and it was really getting to me, so on monday I felt this weight off my shoulders which was great. I’d been dealing with the whole process myself and was incredibly stressed out about it, so was happy to get it out of my mind.
I told my solicitor to write to hers saying that I was no longer interested.
The agent called me again this morning and now she is offering me £500 more off the house and a cooker, so that means £2k off + the cooker, but there is still £1,5k of work to be done + the appliances that I’d need to buy… so my head is chokka block thinking about it again.:doze:
It’s one of the most stressful things I’ve ever been through, which is what I expected, but its emotionally stressful too, I’ve found that I was relieved when the stress was over, which made me think that it was the right decision to pull the plug, but now its back on my mind with the new offer as the vendor doesnt want to lose another sale.:ermm:
So I’m back to where I was last week, trying to work out whether it feels right or not. Part of me doesnt want to give this woman my money, the other part says that I do want my own house, the the other part says well actually where I live now isnt that bad, its a bit far from the office, but is 45mins on the bike or an hour in the car if i leave early, I’m close to angel and my missus’ family then the other part says how long will it be before i find another house?
Sooo… where am I going with this, well, I’d just make sure that you are 100% certain that this is where you want to go. Get yourself prepared mentally and emotionally and get ready for a stressful and hugely time consuming process. If you are stressed at the minute, it might not be a good time to start the process!
If you have any questions then just drop me a PM…