How do i get pics loaded so they show on the message page and not have to click a link??

You have to make sure the images are small enough to fit on the page, i.e. smaller than 1024x768 (or the other way around). The site shows images this size, or smaller, in the post, but bigger images are shown as links. Big images aren’t shown on the page as it means people need to scroll around to see the whole of the image and that gets frustrating.

Nice one, thanks jay