Having spoken at length with shewolf, i have a better understanding on how she feels. Now i know she is generally a strong woman and can shrug things off with a laugh and joke about it…but this hit home with her and other members, and when she asked for help from the Mods (who else was she supposed to go to?) she didnt get it and THATS what hurt her too! After all the hours and her freetime she has put in to help others and assist on LB, when she asked for help, it didnt come. This smacks of Weaver,Paivi,Salee…ALL who had a problem in one way or the other, and asked for help and didnt get it and so felt the only option was to leave the forum…I know the Mods agreed to “back off” and allow certain things to continue even if they got “near the mark” so to speak, as we asked that we could at least have a say on whatever subjects came up we felt we wanted to answer in our own way, but in THIS instance when one post was locked, the OTHER that turned out worse than the first, was allowed to go on for a few days…and certain things mentiond that made shewolf and others react, were deleted by the time the rest of us saw the post, so our comments were not the same as they may have been had we saw them…and that bothered shewolf too…
I know there is a lot of work to do on the forum and its all good stuff, but when a member of your “group” asks for help with something like this…why isnt it forthcoming?..you all know each other so why did it take so long to do something about it all? And now something SHOULD change, so it doesnt happen again !!! If its NOT done, it opens doors to more words, etc if or when the people involved meet up at, say the ACE or wherever…
Also, today i had a email from Drei himself, he has decided he is not going to post on LB again, and he did say that he feels shewolf has done more than he has on the forum with her involvement for them, so he feels he is the one that should leave…personally, and this IS my opinion only? I am both saddened and peed off that Drei was stupid enough not to take heed the first post and then go and put out another one cos that one was locked, and also that shewolf didnt get the support she so needed at that time from the Mods…
I only hope that the remaining hosts and mods, never have a similar problem, although i doubt it will be like this was, and need support from the others, cos the way i see it now, they wont get it…sorry but its how it looks and how its looked for other hosts that have left the forum.
Know it looks like the mods are getting stick, its not the case, i know u have a thankless task and are all good people, just saying something needs to be put in place that prevents this sort of thing that creates a happier medium?..it can be done and would be much appreciated cos we dont want to keep going down this sort of road…give me the open road with me bike situation, any time !!